Posts Tagged ‘love advice’

Dating Like The Movies

Sunday, August 16th, 2009

Well its true you watch a move some one meet there person of there dreams and starts dating them. they fall in love never look at any one else and get married and for the rest of there lives there happy.

well I have one question – Does this happen in real life

I am 26 now and ive had my far share of relationships and one night stands and I feel like I am ready to settle down but I not met the girl of my dreams yet like in the movies is that not ment to happen well it has not happend yet so come on when is it ment to happen lol

well whats funny about this is I am watching a film called just married lol all I am going to say it watch it never seen any thing as funny

BMW Loser!

Monday, August 10th, 2009

Ok little more to it with this bloke, I call him the BMW guy because he’s one of those guys who uses his BWM as compensation for is small….ego shall we say ;) The first dates were fine, great even, it was the way he treated me afterward that really requires some revenge! Ok my mum set me up with a bloke from work. He was really nice, he txt me quite a bit, seemed really eager, on our 6th date he drops me off home after a kiss and a cuddle in the back of his car and says “ok babe i’ll see ya next wednesday, i’ll give ya a txt 2morro ok”, few days go by….. Nothing, I Mean Nothing, No txt, no phone call nothing!

I took the hint and didn’t bother. 2 weeks later i got a txt, “sorry ain’t talked to ya in a while work messing with my head, do u wanna go out nxt wednesday?” I said ok to the date. Next wednesday comes along 2 hours b4 he is suppose to pick me up, he txt’s me saying “sorry cnt make tonight my mates have been in a car accident gotta go and see them in hospital, I’ll txt ya 2morro babe”, later that week i find out (from some people in work) this wasn’t true, (well his friends had been in a crash but that was the week before, he didn’t go and see them that night) he actually ditched me again to go to the pub, Ok i took it on the chin & carried on. 3 weeks go by, he txt’s me again “sorry blah sorry blah blah do u wanna go out nxt wednesday to catch up”. I stupidly agreed thinking I would get a decent appology, on the date he was really rude, he barely talked to me, txting on his phone every 2 seconds, just all in all a miserable pillock! Then at the end of the date, we use to finish things off with a kiss and a cuddle in his car,but not this time, he said “I think I’m gonna go home now, I’m tired from work”. I said “ok see ya soon then”, He said his famouse line “I’ll txt ya 2morro ok”, To which i replied “I DONT THINK I’LL HOLD MY BREATH”. I went home and I havn’t heard from him since! Now every time I see him in work, I either get a half assed hello, or an awkward glance! ha ha ha! I know we wern’t serious or anything, but i thought this really wasn’t called for, I did nothing to deserve this, so this was my revenge, I’m over this, His Loss :)

Falling In Love Via Online Dating… And How To Make It Last!

Thursday, July 3rd, 2008

Online dating is one of the biggest matchmakers in the world at minute. People from all over the world are logging on to the World Wide Web in the hope of finding love. Email after email is sent every single day from a person that believes his or her true love is on the other end of an email account. These messages zip backwards and forwards as people get to know one another, but can true love really spring from online dating? And if it does, can it really stand the test of time?

Many people fall intensely in love via Internet chat rooms and emails every day and tend to fall a lot quicker for someone than they would had they met the recipient at a club, in a bar or through work. This is because it is easier to fantasize if you have an image of someone in your head rather than one that was based on truth. Online dating is notorious for this because dreaming about love keeps many people alive, and the dream version of love is often a lot more idealistic than realistic.

However, when you do actually get to meet up with someone that you met via online dating, you may find that things are moving along quickly, a little too quickly. The best way to make a relationship that began online last is to take it slowly when you finally do meet the person in question. You may already be in love with them but there is a world of difference between an email and a real life date. Simply stick to the information that you have exchanged over the Internet for the first date.

Go to dinner or attend a festival. It should be something that gives you chance to talk but with many other people around. There is a safety aspect to this too but the main thing is that you simply go over the ground you have already covered but face to face. By taking it slowly, you get the chance to formulate a real life opinion about that person as well as living the fantasy in a certain way. It makes the transition from online dating to real life dating that bit easier.

The next step away from online dating towards true love is doing what any other person would do after meeting someone the conventional way – go on one or two dates a week for the first few weeks and then slowly increase the amount of time you are spending with each other. Meanwhile, you should carry on living your normal life. The main reason why online dating relationships fail is because it consumes people and fails to live up to expectations. The second reason is because the relationships often move to fast. You can avoid both of these problems by following the advice above as well as finding love!

A Few Things to Help You Keep Your Man

Monday, June 30th, 2008

There are loads of really nice things to do to keep your man in your life, also to let him know that you still care. Thinking about his hobbies and personalizing your gestures will demonstrate that you do really care about him. You will surprise the man in your life with your thoughtful and tailored gestures. And remember it does not have to cost you money to make him feel special

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