Following on from the 10 things that you should never say to a girl on the first date, we’ve got to fill the ladies in on protecting themselves as far as possible against rejection. Not only do guys have to watch what they say but girls do too. If a guy feels that he’s being insulted on the first date then he isn’t going to want to see you again.
In some ways, guys are more sensitive than girls. Although girls won’t like a guy that waxes lyrical about his ex or his mum, a guy won’t like any phrases that attack his masculinity or looks. Check out the 10 things not to say to a guy on the first date below:
- For some reason you’re thinner than I remembered you!
- I like feminine looking guys
- You call those muscles?
- Wow, check him out!
- My ex says…
- I want to get married in the next year or so.
- My ex was a bouncer/security guard/professional wrestler/policeman etc
- I’m very independent and don’t need looking after by anyone, especially a guy.
- I don’t do sex, not until after I’m married.
- I can’t wait to settle down and have lots of kids.
Now if you stay away from those phrases on your first date, or variations of them, then you’ll be absolutely fine!