Following on from the 10 things that you should never say to a girl on the first date, we’ve got to fill the ladies in on protecting themselves as far as possible against rejection. Not only do guys have to watch what they say but girls do too. If a guy feels that he’s being insulted on the first date then he isn’t going to want to see you again.

In some ways, guys are more sensitive than girls. Although girls won’t like a guy that waxes lyrical about his ex or his mum, a guy won’t like any phrases that attack his masculinity or looks. Check out the 10 things not to say to a guy on the first date below:

1. For some reason you’re thinner than I remembered you!
2. I like feminine looking guys
3. You call those muscles?
4. Wow, check him out!
5. My ex says…
6. I want to get married in the next year or so.
7. My ex was a bouncer/security guard/professional wrestler/policeman etc
8. I’m very independent and don’t need looking after by anyone, especially a guy.
9. I don’t do sex, not until after I’m married.
10. I can’t wait to settle down and have lots of kids.

Now if you stay away from those phrases on your first date, or variations of them, then you’ll be absolutely fine!

Going on a first date can be nerve racking for a guy. After all, it isn’t very good to have a girl go out on a first date with you and then have her reject you. She may not reject you at all but your fear of rejection when combined with the nerves and the excitement of your first date could lead to all sorts of things coming out of your mouth that that you wish you had never said.

First dates can lead to rejection if you offend your date through saying any number of things, but the top 10 things never to say are listed below for ease of reference:

1. You look so much better than you normally do.
2. Do you sleep with someone on the first date?
3. My ex says…
4. You remind me of my mum.
5. I would ask you back to mine but my parents will be in bed.
6. But you’re a girl!
7. I’m a nice guy, honest.
8. My therapist says…
9. I usually go for pretty girls but I really like you.
10. Wow, look at the tits on her!

Any variation of the above is a massive no-no. If you steer clear of these then you’ll be fine!

For the 10 thinks you should never say to a guy, check in later this week!

Flicking through the agony aunt and uncle columns both online and in the newspapers can be an enlightening experience. They say that you don’t realise how good you have it until you read of someone else’s problems, whether in the dating arena or in another area of life. I did read an interesting letter in one of those columns last week though and thought I’d touch on it here in a dating capacity.

The letter was from a woman that wanted to know if she should tell her boyfriend she loved him. They’d been together for 6 months and she had the feeling that he might not be receptive. The agony aunt was a little evasive in her answer, saying that she’d know when the time is right. I have to say I agree with her – you do know when the time is right but usually the first weeks of dating or a relationship aren’t it. Another letter below dealt with a girlfriend scarpering because her boyfriend had told her he loved her when drunk after 5 days.

5 days of dating is nowhere near enough to know how you really feel about someone. I’m not saying that love at first sight doesn’t exist because it may well do, but telling someone that you really love him or her after a few days could be a problem. It takes weeks, or even months to get to know someone properly so don’t rush into anything!

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There’s millions of UK dating singles out there in cyberspace but yet every one still asks can your fall in love with someone you have met online? Our answer is an absolutely big YES, and it is happening every single day.

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Great you found someone online. You have spent the past few weeks/months getting to know each other. You email I.M, send each other cute text messages which makes you both smile and also now and again you spend some time talking to each other on the phone

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